Fri 13 Aug 2010
I recently had a chance to fly the friendly skies. But there was one little problem: no one actually seemed very friendly . . . including me. We were delayed – lots of grumbling. Then there was nothing left but middle seats – more grousing. An unhappy baby ahead of me cried throughout the flight.I sat with my knees crushed, feeling like a sardine in a can. I fell into a spin cycle of frustration, ticking off all the annoyances: mechanical failure, turbulence, uncomfortable seating, unwelcome neighbors. I closed my eyes, patience lost, willing the time to fly.As we landed and waited to exit, the woman next to me said into her cell phone, “So it’s metastasized then? . . . Oh . . . Yes . . . Okay.”I had never heard such an intimate cell phone exchange, ever. I debated whether to say anything, and then offered, “Sounds like someone you care about is ill.” She responded, “My father. He’s dying.”Every person around me, I realized, had a story, a life full of joys and sorrows, triumphs and challenges. The inconveniences around me melted away. I wished her and her father peace on their journey. And, just like that, the skies got a lot friendlier.To receive Ashley’s weekly blog via email Click Herewww.ashleydavisbush.com
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